How do you do this you may ask? I can offer a few ideas from my own experiences of learning to bloom where I've been planted.
The most important thing you can do is to take responsibility for where you are in your life. That doesn't mean blaming yourself. It simply means that the culmination of your decisions and choices have led you to where you are today. So, there is a reason you're here.
Focus on what is good about where you are. I'm not saying for you to be falsely optimistic about the situation you are in. But the more you can dig deep for some sort of gratitude in any given situation the better you will connect vibrationally with higher energies and better situations.
Change your perspective. If, at this moment, it's impossible to move from where you are, then look at the situation from a different perspective. You may be surprised at how things will change.
Nurture yourself while you are in this place. Don't wait for others to nourish you. Find out what makes you feel alive and do it often. But, most importantly, be kind to yourself. If you've been planted in circumstances where others cannot or will not aid in your healthy growth you must provide yourself with all that you need.
And, when you think of it, who knows better than you what you need to bloom where you're planted?