Expecting everyone to be happy on a day such as this is not realistic. This day will be a challenge for many. I understand and honour that. It's a bitter-sweet day for me, as well.
So, if you're celebrating the day, good for you. I am happy for you.
If, however, you feel like running or hiding from the day, I offer you Compassion and Love along with my most fervent wish for a peaceful day for you.